The charmers polish constantly. David Denkenberger is brilliant, rigorous, and I am shocked that his charity ALLFED is not fully funded. Its just there to process data to see whats going on with police reports. https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=648574109. Now youve seen a little bit of my creativity. I could also be stolen away from a lover this way if the protection were inadequate. Authorize the publication of the original written obituary with the accompanying photo. I wont wirehead myself into the perfect victim. Given how disruptive sexual violence risk has been to my life, I think hurting in the long-term is likely, though oppression is the cause. Fantasies about someone ruthlessly crushing a threat gets the strongest response in my case. At first, I was level headed and everyone thought it was great. If your kin takes care of you, you wont be lonely. Either somebody very clever has been stalking me or there was a really unlikely bunch of coincidences. DIANA Kathy Ann Ford, 62 of Diana, passed away August 27, 2021 in the ICU at Good Shepard Medical Center from COVID. I am also strategic enough to light much larger things on fire in a much less careful fashion. Sex offenders wield the art of confusion, so the advocate needs to be shrewd and well-informed with the ability to make good arguments, and bright and rational enough to advocate in the face of clever arguments from the bright rationalist sex offenders around. This went on for months. Their existence and alliance with me is a deterrent for people who might hurt me. She is preceded in death by her. Did you know theres this whole super dedicated group of people in a branch of EA that could be really high-impact called suffering reduction? My self would be trapped inside of this body which behaves in ways that dont reflect the real me. Immediately after I told him not to kiss me, he did it again! If you cut down the tall poppies over and over, one day only the very shortest poppy will be left. Despite being vulnerable, seniors are rarely targeted for rape. The independent organization needs to stay independent. Together they had 3 children. You will be pleased with him. I might consult with them about how to evaluate a security risk, but I would only ask them to take action to protect me when I am genuinely afraid and think the risk is too high. If I was doing much better than this 10 years ago, and ended up here, I really dont think my next 10 years is going to be very nice. . My future isnt likely to be pleasant for me, and I cant be useful to you. A good book is Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. "He was killed on I-94 and Second (Streetin Detroit). Once the prettiest women leave, does the cycle continue, with offenders targeting the next prettiest batch? Funeral arrangement under the care ofBrown-Butz-Diedring Funeral Service & Crematory. Ive already tried to solve the security problems, but theyre not solved because people arent doing anywhere near enough to make the environments I need safe enough for me. The military does it. Being fat is not effective against any other type of offender for me. They have a lot more partners, around ten times as many according to one source I found. Create a Notice. There needs to be accountability for the independent review organizations, too. I am barely myself anymore. I hereby put all of my completed articles, completed images of any type, completed charts, completed graphs, and public comments into the public domain under the same license as this suicide note. It feels like this: The man is my soldier and my general. You can only hit your head against the same stonewall for so long. I have been thinking like a rationalist and effective altruist for 20 years. Everyone gets old to the point of becoming disabled unless they die of an accident, disease or a fight. Its random. This does happen. Your entry has exceeded the maximum character limit. Copyright 2023 Echovita Inc. All rights reserved. For accountability to work as well as possible, you need as many people looking at the statistics from independent review organizations as possible. Then I tried to advocate for myself and I ended up burnt out and dejected. Kathy Ford. On March 17, 2018, she committed suicide. They have to keep the police accountable, not make friends with them. The people who regularly practice vaguery are some of the nastiest. There is money around. Please dont ever expect anyone else to avoid seeming pessimistic. Obituary. I calibrated guessing IQs and I think she is one of the smartest people Ive ever met. Oh, but sex offenders couldnt possibly be targeting you just because youre around them at work, in a rationalist meetup group, at an effective altruism event, or hanging around programmers in your free time, could they? Do not require something that takes over the persons autonomy. In addition to her husband, Bob, and their son, Chris, Mrs. Weist is survived by two sisters, Terry Kiser . How? It would have been much, much higher if I hadnt stopped attending events, especially if I had moved to The Bay. This note should never be used to advocate suicide to a vulnerable person, and should be presented with context, warnings, and advice about what to do to seek help. It really is no wonder that people do self-destructive things when they really desperately need help! 2023 SCI SHARED RESOURCES, LLC. Ford is survived by her daughters, Deborah DuRoss Guibord and Kimberly DuRoss, her granddaughters, Chelsea Guibord Cox andTara DuRoss, grandson David Guibord, and a great-granddaughter, Quinn DuRoss Cox, and well as a niece, two nephews, a grand-niece and three grand-nephews. In my case, it would have been quite tricky to make a costly signal succeed because what I needed from you is to take something seriously which you didnt want to acknowledge. Without a large enough sample size, the results from these organizations will vary wildly. Obituaries Section. Is it because young-looking people are more attractive? This desperate self-sabotage is not mental illness. 6. We are The Targeted Ones. I created an infographic with 25 examples of the stonewalling Ive been encountering this whole time. If the independent review organization follows up on a random sample of crime reports, theyll be able to do the highest quality job on fewer reports. This is simply because most people who like women are more attracted to pretty-faced women. Kathy had a deep love for her church The Edge, God, her husband, children and grandchildren. Kathleen "Kathy" Ford (nee Heidere) of Philadelphia, PA passed away on September 14, 2022 at her home in Cathedral Village surrounded by her loved ones. These are definitely my people. Thats just not how it is. Write your message of sympathy today. Sign up for service and obituary updates. Albert Lea, Minnesota. For instance, they need to follow up after the same time limits. Unless they can get the funding to do a high quality job on every single report, using the random sample to investigate what happened to fewer reports is actually a good thing. I might have figured something out. Several people have complained to me about the rushing. A bunch of people popped up with compliments, collaboration requests and to notify me that I had fans! Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Kathy Ann Ford to pay them a last tribute. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. If people know you have a will that outs all the nastiest people you encounter, maybe they wont bother you in the first place. We are sad to announce that on February 1, 2023, at the age of 74, Thelma Ford of Anderson, Indiana, born in Middlesboro, Kentucky passed away. The secret to earning a womans willingness to defer is not about being dominant toward the women! Please watch out. I am burnt out, heart broken, and filled with despair. Because of the third factor, youd be more likely to survive a short-term injury, but less likely to survive a permanent disability. If Im dead, I dont think theyll worry about this anymore. Would I even have personhood then? If the safety pragma phenomenon were more widely understood and accepted, Id have been able to do something with this situation. Kathy Bachman Ford, 62, of West Columbia passed away on Thursday, April 29, 2021. Therefore, even with a random sample, the police will improve their behavior. Any statistically literate professional should be able to tell you whether they have accomplished an adequate sample size and statistical significance. This could probably even motivate me to have casual sex, which I would normally have no interest in because I am coy (a slow and selective sexual orientation, a Dawkins term). We cannot have just one independent review organization for the entire country. Other people had the same experience with them. Foust . "He was coming back from band practice, and they hit a patch of ice, and hit one of the cement abutments. There is no nepenthe for dignity. Hanging out with the police is too friendly. This is very much needed! The level of enthusiasm and dedication I would offer would be a costly signal that I really needed them. No one was interested in talking about the same things. This preference varies based on culture. I highly recommend doing this if you are dying. Share Obituary. Independent review organizations need to accept both police reports that were made successfully and also accepts all crime reports that people didnt or couldnt file with the police. I could have done that to you. The trouble is, I wouldnt be myself. What I need is to be alive and flourishing in my own skin, not just going through the motions, trapped in my body, with my mind on mute for the rest of my life. Paul William Ferrell, a rookie sheriff's deputy, was convicted of the murder of Cathy Ford, a 19-year-old waitress from nearby Maryland. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Thelma Ford to pay them a last tribute. First Baptist Church Diana 1759 US-259, Diana, TX 75640. In The Art of War, Sun Tzu explains that you cannot defend a country with mercenaries. 8. She was an effective altruist who specialized in understanding people through the application of rationality techniques. If they do, people move there, and spend money. Thats 24 years, or 4.8 stretches of 5 years. Kathy was born on March 12, 1961 in Petoskey, the daughter of Harold A. and Esther E. (Hoyt) Daniels. The great thing about dying is that I can make enemies with allllllll the nastiest people and none of them will hurt me! This sample is kind of small. Youre supposed to log abuse because its useful later on when you need to go to an authority. What would have worked in my case was unacceptable: Something that would have worked to save me is if someone clever enough and trustworthy enough offered me protection. First, I decided I couldnt be a writer. Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday, April 26th at 11am. Each time you prevent one, consider how much time and other resources you saved by preventing it. If the police get enough reports about the same person, they can combine them. If people dont use the statistics, accountability wont work. Everyone needs heroes, but dont follow them. I made a minor update post about this. "Her first husband, she met when she was in high school," Amluxen said. I strongly suspect theres a double tall poppy type effect. After volunteering with. Please report any offenses now. All publishers of crime statistics need to be required to publish both an assessment from the independent review organization and also the police. He touched my thigh again. I forgot the details but they said something like I am extroverted and outgoing. Being outside this network felt like being dead inside my own skin. Is it because offenders feel more powerful when targeting a young-looking person? The onslaught may never end. Sex offenders arent that different from everyone else. I thought about making a new network, but it would probably end up with the same gender ratio which multiplies my already elevated sexual violence risk. She was also cherished by numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews. The differences between my way and the LW/EA way are relatively small. Frank . People need for these independent review statistics to be obvious and available in at least the majority of places where they actually read crime statistics. Theres a lot of stuff thats important which is totally different from Tomisik and David Pearce! I stopped being creative because I didnt feel like sharing my creativity anymore and thinking about it made me sad. April 9, 2023 (99 years old) View obituary. Mental wards are traumatic for people because they are forcibly trapped. If you always assume its chemical, you will let everyone in a bad situation literally die because of a hasty generalization. It may take up to 1 hour for your comment to appear on the website. If someone is suicidal because they have been traumatized, do you really want to traumatize them again? Leave a comment 1949 - 2015. I really needed help with that part but people didnt believe in the problem enough to invest the time into negotiating how I can prove this is a real problem. Maybe you will feel like a burden, but thats only 1 of 3 risk factors. The amount of sexual violence Ive actually experienced is elevated beyond what most women would experience. She keeps them a secret if you want. Find the obituary of Thelma "Kathy" Ford (1948 - 2023) from Anderson, IN. She. So, I was doomed to the endless dismissals treadmill from the start. KATHY FORD OBITUARY FORD, Kathy Ann Of Garland, Texas, passed away April 21, 2015 in Keller, Texas. Michael Arc needs a one way ticket to the moon. What is happiness without meaning? Im bisexual. Im not even sure I can work. This was automatic. Screening and kino are boundary violations at best and can easily qualify as sexual harassment or even sexual violence. There needs to be an advocate that everyone feels comfortable with, and who is very knowledgeable about how sexual violence actually works someone who will keep it a secret and talk to you while you try to figure out what to do. I tried becoming fat to ruin my beauty so that I could avoid sexual violence. I know thats probably going to continue. When what you need is alliance, emotional support is just as empty as a drug. I cant be particularly useful to the world with this much risk of disruption in my future. Being abused and enslaved are depressing, and will only make a suicidal person feel worse. I might not be facing intractable problems right now if I had known how bad my risk was years ago. This is because bribery does happen sometimes. I was the third. I think a study would help this hideously oppressed group of women get the help, the physical security, and support they need. She was born December 2, 1949, in Magnolia, Arkansas. For someone who protected me, I would obey security related orders, and offer very enthusiastic sexual service. Sue was born July 30, 1935, in Springhill, Louisiana and entered into rest April 8, 2023, in Homer, Louisiana. Without a concept like super survivors people like me will be ignored. Dont pretend you can ignore the situation. I suspect this is a common instinct. Im half way to social justice warrior. Echovita Inc is a registered trademark. They need to accept reports that are incomprehensible or incomplete. The person is creating a costly signal for you! What you need to make this orderly is called statistical significance, and one of the things statistical significance requires is a large enough sample size. I also love programming. Nobody I know has ever heard of anything like the safety pragma I describe. The secret is respecting the woman and knowing how to deal with dangerous men who could hurt her. This has only relocated the hot potato. Then I would have been released and youd believe that Id been fixed in there! They become extraordinary by hiding what is ordinary about themselves. I would repay them by cherishing them. I look young enough that most people mistake me for being in the high risk age range. 1936 - 2023 Nancy Stender Crim died peacefully . This is because when people are rushing, they dont think enough to notice your cons. These are not costly signals that you need help surviving. This advocate would be invaluable for people who want to attend a reporting event to go to the police. Sometimes, people would commit sex offenses shortly after they complimented me for these things. Establish a risk-free way for suicidal people to ask for help including a way to provide a costly signal to you with no risk of being put into a mental ward. You might not want to believe what Im about to explain. They can also advocate for the survivor when reporting to Julia Wise. It was yours. By Gavin Edwards. This phenomenon is called classical conditioning. Arlington, Minnesota. She accepted Christ early in her life. You will worry theyre milking you. I didnt do a study, but I experienced this encounter as an independent verification of that phenomenon. Every group has abusers. Your entry has exceeded the maximum character limit. So there need to be multiple separate independent review organizations. Male dominated environments create a disadvantage for women in terms of sexual violence. This shouldnt be a big concern because the independent review organization is not there to punish anyone. There is a military saying Slow is smooth; smooth is fast. Thats what it means. People who are influenced by their own motivated reasoning do not realize they are confusing themselves. Give me respect or give me death. I suspect theres a connection between our amoral manipulators and our charmers. You may follow this obituary to receive an email when new information is published. And what if I succeeded? DIED. It takes hours of research for each one. He touched my thigh at Signal Data Science where I was living and training to become a data scientist. My unfinished items of these types can be shared under the same license as long you make it clear that some of them are just me jotting down ideas. Share your thoughts and memories of Kathryn, Share your thoughts and memories with family and friends of Kathryn. To survive and avoid injury, trauma, rape and other abuses, it makes sense for a woman to seek someone who will defend her. So I started finding excuses to show high status people bits of my potential, hoping someone would help get me out of my lockup! This is disgusting, but part of the problem is that some men are turned on by the thought of sexual violence. I am choosing to remain anonymous; I do not wish to be contacted by any of the people accused here, nor do I want to be considered a mouthpiece or advocate for Kathys specific viewpoints. Its too weird. Just like everyone else, sex offenders are attracted to things like creativity, intelligence, and passion. It occurs to me that following orders from the person who protects me both outsources the challenge of defense and makes defense more efficient. Patrick Robotham is the most brilliant rationalist Ive ever gotten to know. View the profiles of people named Kathy Ford. Instead theyre throwing out spitball ideas they havent even spent five minutes thinking through, and enjoying a false sense of security because there now seems to be a solution. I wrote a bit for them, too. It is bizarre and unnatural to talk someone who will not be my ally, and strange to call this help. Im pretty sure its illegal to offer sex in exchange for bodyguard services and security work. KATHY FORD OBITUARY LYONS - Kathy C. Ford, 64, passed away on Thursday (June 10, 2021) at her home in Lyons. I wish the views we discussed about human trafficking were heard throughout EA. 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